Be Perfect, as Your Heavenly Father Is Perfect.
Be Perfect, as Your Heavenly Father Is Perfect
In the previous reflection, “Christ Died, Was Buried, and Rose — and That’s All You Need”, a conversation on our workplace messenger turned to what a man must believe to be saved — and a Protestant coworker answered that the gospel reduces to three facts: the death, the burial, the rising. We saw why that was off base. Not because the three facts are wrong — they are the load-bearing wall — but because Paul himself conditions salvation on holding fast (1 Cor 15:2), patrols the gospel’s edges with an anathema (Gal 1:8), and calls the faith that saves a faith that works through love (Gal 5:6). The door, we said, is not the house.
But that left a question hanging in the air, and a fair one. If affirming the facts is not the whole of it — if there is a house to live in and not merely a door to walk through — then what, exactly, am I supposed to become? What is the shape of the life inside? The New Testament gives an answer so steep it has frightened Christians for two thousand years. It comes from the lips of Christ Himself, in the Sermon on the Mount: “Be ye therefore perfect, as also your heavenly Father is perfect” (Mt 5:48). Not better. Not sincere. Perfect — and the standard is God. This reflection is about that verse: why it is not the crushing demand it first appears to be, what the Greek actually says, and why the holiness God requires turns out to be the very gift He gives.
This is not a doctrine of earning. Everything that follows stands on one principle, and if you lose it you will misread the whole: the perfection God commands is the perfection God works. We are not climbing to God on a ladder of our own merits. We are being conformed — and even the cooperation is His gift. Keep that thread in your hand and the steep command becomes an open door.
I The Strongest Form of the Objection
The serious Protestant does not deny that Christians grow in holiness. He insists on it. Calvin wrote movingly that since the Holy Spirit has made us temples, we ought to strive to keep them undefiled; sanctification is no Catholic invention. His worry is more precise, and it deserves to be stated at full strength: the moment you make growth in holiness a condition of final salvation rather than its fruit, you have smuggled works back into the gospel and put the soul back under the Law. Salvation, he will say, is received by faith alone, full stop; the good works follow inevitably as evidence, but they earn nothing and secure nothing, because to make my standing before God depend on my own perfecting is to make Christ’s finished work insufficient and to hand the anxious conscience an endless ladder it can never climb. “Be perfect” must therefore be Law that drives us to grace — not a goal we are actually expected to reach.
I have read Matthew 5:48 a hundred times, and for years it landed on me like a sentence rather than a promise. Be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Set beside the God who flung the galaxies and knows the fall of every sparrow, the command seems not difficult but absurd — as if a candle were ordered to shine like the sun. And the reflex it produces is the very one my Protestant coworker was reaching for: surely this cannot mean what it says; surely the bar must be lowered to something a man can clear; surely, in the end, the facts are enough and the rest is gravy. The steep command sends us running back to the minimum.
But the answer to a hard saying is never to flinch from it. It is to read it more closely than our fear will allow. And when you do — when you ask what the word perfect actually meant in the mouth that first spoke it — the sentence stops sounding like a sentence and starts sounding like the invitation it always was. The trouble was never the command. The trouble was that we heard “perfect” in the thin modern sense of flawless, and never in the sense Christ’s own language carried.
II What the Word Actually Says
The Greek of Matthew 5:48 is ésesthe… téleioi, and the first word repays a careful look — carefully, because it is easy to over-read. Ésesthe is the future of the verb “to be,” “you shall be.” I will not lean on the grammar harder than it can bear: in the idiom of the Law this future functions as a command — it is exactly how the Decalogue speaks (“you shall not kill”) — so this is no soft prediction we may shrug off. It binds. But it is worth noticing all the same that the Lord casts the command as something we are to become, not merely something we are to do: a state we are summoned into, with God Himself as its measure.
Then the word we stumble on. Téleios does not first mean “flawless” or “sinless”; it comes from télos — an end, a goal — and means brought to its end, complete, mature, lacking nothing proper to it. A téleios thing has become fully what it was made to be; the Septuagint uses it for the Hebrew tamim, the unblemished sacrifice. But let me concede at once what an honest reader will press, because the concession matters more than the lexicon: the clause “as your heavenly Father is perfect” sets the standard at God’s own completeness, and the parallel in Luke — “be merciful, as your Father is merciful” (Lk 6:36) — shows the measure is the Father’s own undivided love. The word does not quietly lower the bar to something a man can clear. The bar is exactly as high as it first looked: God Himself. Reading téleios rightly does not shrink the demand; it changes its shape — from a flawless ledger we must never blot to a completion we must be brought to. And a completion measured by God is, by its very definition, something no creature manufactures in himself. The height of the standard is the first sign that whatever meets it must come as grace and not as our own achievement — which is the one thing every Christian, Catholic or Protestant, should be able to say together before they argue about anything else.
There is a resonance worth hearing here, so long as we do not overstate it into an argument it cannot carry. When the Lord says “he that shall endure unto the end—eis télos—shall be saved” (Mt 24:13), the “end” is a different sense of the word: a temporal finish, not the qualitative maturity of téleios. They are not one idea, and a shared root does not make them one — I will not pretend otherwise. But the two do face the same way. The perfection we are called to is not a height we vault to in an instant; it is an end we are carried toward and must not abandon along the road. Perfection, in this life, has the shape of a journey — which is why the next thing Scripture does is hand us the language of labor.
III The Command Is Not a Stray Verse
If Matthew 5:48 stood alone, we might hope to explain it away as hyperbole — the kind of bracing overstatement the Sermon on the Mount is full of. But it does not stand alone. The call to be made holy runs through the whole of Scripture like a spine, in the mouth of the Lord and in every apostle who wrote.
It is the oldest refrain in the Law: “Be holy, for I am holy” (Lev 11:44), which Peter takes up and presses on the whole Church — “as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation” (1 Pet 1:15–16). The author of Hebrews makes it bluntly a condition of seeing God at all: “Follow… holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord” (Heb 12:14). Paul tells the Thessalonians plainly, “this is the will of God, even your sanctification” (1 Thess 4:3). He tells the Romans to be “transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Rom 12:2) — the verb is metamorphousthe, the same root as the Transfiguration, an inward remaking. He tells the Corinthians we are being “changed into the same image from glory to glory” (2 Cor 3:18). And he tells us why he labors at all: “that we may present every man perfect—téleion—in Christ Jesus” (Col 1:28). The perfection of Matthew 5 is not a slip of the tongue. It is the announced goal of the apostolic mission.
This is the answer to the instinct that says religion asks only for a decision and a doctrinal minimum. Scripture asks for a transformation — nothing less than the remaking of the whole person into the likeness of Christ. To stop at the three facts is to receive the diagnosis and refuse the cure.
IV “Work Out Your Own Salvation”
And this transformation is not handed to us finished while we sleep. Scripture describes it everywhere as a labor, a race, a fight — language of sustained effort that the minimalist gospel has no room for. Paul tells the Philippians to “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling” (Phil 2:12). The verb is katergázesthe — to work a thing all the way through to its completion — and it is present and continuous: keep working it out. Salvation here is not a receipt stamped once and filed; it is a field being worked to harvest.
What is striking is who says it. This is not an anxious novice but the Apostle Paul, the man who wrote half the New Testament — brought up “at the feet of Gamaliel” (Acts 22:3), the most eminent rabbi of his generation. Gamaliel the Elder was so revered that he is remembered as the first teacher to bear the title Rabban, “our master,” and the Mishnah records that when he died “the glory of the Torah ceased” (Sotah 9:15). This is the master Paul was formed by — and yet even he refuses to presume on his own arrival: “I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest… when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway” (1 Cor 9:27). That last word is adókimos — disqualified, failing the test, rejected. If Paul ran as one who could still be disqualified, the man who treats salvation as a finished transaction has understood something Paul did not. Paul saw the Christian life as a race to be run to the end — “so run, that ye may obtain” (1 Cor 9:24) — and only at the very end could he say, “I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course… henceforth there is laid up for me a crown” (2 Tim 4:7–8).
The whole New Testament speaks this way. Peter urges us to “give all diligence” to add to our faith virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, charity — and only then, “if ye do these things, ye shall never fall” (2 Pet 1:5–10). The Lord tells us to “strive to enter in at the strait gate” (Lk 13:24) — the verb is ag&ocaron;nizésthe, from which we get agony. And He ties final salvation to perseverance itself: “he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved” (Mt 24:13). This is the house we spoke of in the first reflection — and a house is not a threshold you cross once, but a life you live to its last day.
V Whose Work Is It?
It is worth lingering here, because this is the hinge on which the whole reflection turns, and the place a careless reader will go wrong in either direction — toward a Pelagian self-help that makes grace a mere assist, or toward a passivity that makes our striving a sham. Scripture holds both ropes taut at once and will not let us drop either.
On the one hand, the initiative is entirely God’s and the completion is entirely His. It is “he which hath begun a good work in you” who “will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ” (Phil 1:6) — and the verb for “perform” is epitelései, He will bring it to its télos, its completion. The very perfection commanded in Matthew 5:48 is the perfection promised in Philippians 1:6. The One who issues the command supplies the fulfillment. We do not generate the holiness; we are “his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them” (Eph 2:10). Even the good road was laid before we walked it.
On the other hand, the walking is genuinely ours. Grace does not move us as a hand moves a tool; it heals a will and sets it free to love. “Faith which worketh by love” (Gal 5:6) is faith that acts — the believer’s own act, drawn out and empowered by charity poured into the heart. This is why the saints never spoke as though their holiness embarrassed God’s grace or competed with it. They knew it was His grace, arriving at its purpose. To grow in holiness is not to add our contribution to Christ’s; it is to let Christ’s finished work finish its work in us. The cross is not insufficient. It is so sufficient that it intends to remake us entirely — and a salvation that left us untransformed would be a smaller thing than the one Scripture promises, not a safer one.
The Reformer’s fear is not imaginary, and we must not pretend it is. There is a real disease at the edge of this doctrine, and it has claimed real souls: scrupulosity, the turning of sanctification into a ledger, the anxious accounting of merits and failures that mistakes the Father for an auditor and the Christian life for a perpetual exam one can never be sure of passing. Luther himself was driven half to despair on that rack before he found peace, and we should be slow to wave the danger away. A doctrine of perfection held without the doctrine of grace really does become a machine for producing despair.
But notice that this is the very error the first reflection diagnosed, only wearing the opposite mask. There the soul asked, “What is the least I can do?” — the servile question of the hireling counting his minimum hours. Here the soul asks, “Have I done enough?” — and trembles. Both have mistaken the relationship for a contract and God for an employer. The cure is the same in both directions: it is sonship. The son does not ask the least he can do, nor does he keep a terrified ledger of whether he has done enough. He labors in his Father’s house out of love, leaning on a strength that is his Father’s and resting in the trustworthiness of the One who called him — not the false security of a man who has decided he cannot fall, nor the paralysis of one who fears he is already lost, but the confident hope of a son who trusts his Father’s goodness and the sufficiency of His grace. (That hope is real and steadying; it is not the same as an infallible guarantee of his own perseverance, which no man has of himself — but a son does not need to have audited the inheritance to trust the Father who promised it.) Filial striving and servile bookkeeping can look alike from the outside. From the inside they are heaven and hell apart.
VI The Race Has No Finish Line in This Life
There is one more fear to disarm, and it is the most practical of all: if the standard is perfection, and I am so plainly not perfect, am I not simply condemned to fail every day of my life? The answer is one of the most beautiful things the Fathers ever saw, and it is hiding in plain sight in Paul. Listen to him refuse, in the same letter, both despair and presumption: “Not as though I had already attained, either were already perfect… but I follow after… I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Phil 3:12–14). And then, astonishingly, two sentences later: “Let us therefore, as many as be perfect—téleioi—be thus minded” (3:15). In one breath Paul says he is not yet perfect; in the next he numbers himself among the perfect. He is not confused. He has seen that, in this life, perfection just is the pressing-on.
St. Gregory of Nyssa drew this out into one of the great insights of Christian thought. Because God is infinite, he reasoned, the soul that draws near to Him never reaches a wall and stops; it goes from glory to glory forever, and this endless ascent is not a failure to arrive but the very form perfection takes in a creature. “The perfection of human nature,” he wrote, “consists perhaps in its very growth in goodness.” The one limit of virtue, he said, is that it has no limit. So the Christian who looks at himself and sees that he has not arrived has not thereby proven himself a hypocrite under an impossible command. He has discovered what the command always meant: keep climbing. The mountain is God, and it has no summit short of Him. To be on the path, pressing on, refusing to stop — that is to be téleios in the only way a pilgrim can be.
VII What We Are Becoming
And what is at the end of the climb? Here we reach the thing the Christian East names most boldly — though the West holds it no less truly, and serious Protestant theology, with its own rich doctrine of union with Christ and of glorification, affirms a real version of it (Calvin himself expounds 2 Peter 1:4, though he is careful to distinguish sharing God’s qualities by grace — righteousness, immortality, likeness — from any participation in His essence). The vocabulary differs more than the hope does: the end of the command to be perfect is nothing less than to be made like God — to share, by grace, in His own life. Peter says it outright: we are given the promises “that… ye might be partakers of the divine nature” (2 Pet 1:4). John says we do not yet know all that we shall be, but “we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is” (1 John 3:2). Paul says we are “predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son” (Rom 8:29), and the goal is to be “filled with all the fulness of God” (Eph 3:19).
The Fathers had a daring word for this. “He was made man,” wrote St. Athanasius, “that we might be made God.”2 St. Irenaeus said the same of the Word, “who did, through His transcendent love, become what we are, that He might bring us to be even what He is Himself.” The Catholic Church holds this without the least embarrassment — the Catechism opens its treatment of grace by quoting Athanasius and Peter together, and the word it uses is divinization. We must say carefully what it does and does not mean: we do not melt into God or become God in His very being — the creature never stops being a creature, and the gulf between Creator and made-thing is never crossed from our side. What we are promised is real participation, by grace, in the life that God is by nature — to be so filled with His holiness, His charity, His light, that the old word perfect finally fits us, not because we have manufactured it, but because He has finished making us into the image we were always meant to bear.
That is the house. That is what was waiting behind the door my coworker thought he could stand in front of forever. Not a doctrinal exam barely passed, but a Father remaking His children into His own likeness, slowly, over a whole life, by a grace that asks our whole heart precisely because it intends to give us everything.
“Be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect” is not the crushing sentence it first appears. The word is téleios — brought to completion, made fully what you were meant to be — and the verb leans into the future: you shall be. It is less a bar to clear than a destiny to grow into, and the One who commands it is the One who works it: “he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it” (Phil 1:6). So Scripture can command the whole labor of sanctification — run, strive, endure, work it out with fear and trembling — and in the same breath deny that the strength is ours: “for it is God which worketh in you” (Phil 2:13); “yet not I, but the grace of God” (1 Cor 15:10). The Reformer’s fear of works-righteousness misses the grammar: we are not climbing to God, we are being conformed to Him, and even the climbing is His gift — for when He crowns our merits, He crowns nothing but His own gifts.
The first reflection asked how little may I believe, and found the question malformed. This one asks how much may I become, and finds the answer staggering: a partaker of the divine nature, conformed to the image of the Son, filled with all the fulness of God. So we can turn back, at the last, to the man on the other end of that first conversation — the coworker for whom the whole gospel had shrunk to three facts to be affirmed, the death and the burial and the rising, with nothing further asked. We can say to him now, gently but without flinching, what the whole weight of Scripture has been saying: that to assent to true things, even to the truest things, is not yet to be saved, and never was. We are told to fight the good fight, to run the race set before us and to finish it, to follow after the holiness without which no man shall see the Lord, to work out our own salvation with fear and trembling, and to abide in the state of grace that His own gift sustains in us. This is no optional fervor for the spiritually ambitious; it is the ordinary calling of every soul that would be saved. The door is not the house — and the house is given us to live in.
And yet the reflection must close where it cannot yet conclude. For a house that can be entered and lived in can also, God forbid, be abandoned. Scripture is as sober about that danger as it is radiant about the calling: the branch that bears no fruit is cut off and burned, the man once enlightened can fall away, the runner himself can be disqualified. The easy certainty that a salvation once received can never afterward be lost — the assurance the modern believer so often takes for granted — is no part of the ancient faith. It entered Christendom only with the Reformation; the Church judged it an error, and St. Robert Bellarmine, the foremost theologian of the Counter-Reformation, could rank the doctrine of assurance among the very greatest of the new heresies. That is the hardest word of the three, and it is where this series turns last: not how little may I believe, nor how much may I become, but whether what God has given can be lost — and why the saints, who presumed nothing, worked out their salvation in fear and trembling to the end.
- The Holy Bible, Douay-Rheims (verse text), with the Greek of the Nestle-Aland 28th ed. consulted for Mt 5:48 (ésesthe…téleioi; future indicative; téleios from télos), Phil 2:12–13 (katergázesthe), 1 Cor 9:27 (adókimos), Phil 1:6 (epitelései), Mt 24:13 (eis télos), Rom 12:2 (metamorphousthe).
- Athanasius of Alexandria. On the Incarnation (De Incarnatione) 54.3. Trans. in Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers, 2nd ser., vol. 4; cf. the St Vladimir’s Seminary Press edition (Behr).
- Irenaeus of Lyons. Against Heresies V, preface. In Ante-Nicene Fathers, vol. 1, ed. Roberts & Donaldson.
- Gregory of Nyssa. The Life of Moses (on the limitlessness of virtue and perfection as perpetual growth). Trans. Malherbe & Ferguson, Classics of Western Spirituality.
- Augustine of Hippo. Epistle 194 to Sixtus, 5.19: “cum Deus coronat merita nostra, nihil aliud coronet quam munera sua.” Cf. the Roman Missal, Preface I of Saints (“coronando merita tua dona coronas”).
- Council of Trent. Decree on Justification (Sixth Session, 1547), ch. 13 (the gift of perseverance), ch. 16 and Canon 32 (merit as God’s gift and true merit), Canon 24 (justice increased through good works).
- Council of Trent, Session 6, ch. 9 (“Against the Vain Confidence of Heretics”) and canons 13–16 — condemning the claimed certainty of one’s own justification and final perseverance, while commending the “firmest hope”; cf. St. Robert Bellarmine, De Justificatione (the certainty of grace as the chief error of the Reformers).
- Catechism of the Catholic Church §460 (divinization; citing 2 Pet 1:4, Athanasius, Aquinas), §§1996–2000 (grace), §§2006–2011 (merit), §2016 (final perseverance).
- Mishnah, Sotah 9:15 (“When Rabban Gamaliel the Elder died, the glory of the Torah ceased”); cf. Acts 22:3 (Paul brought up “at the feet of Gamaliel”).
- Augustine, Epistle 194 to Sixtus, 5.19: “cum Deus coronat merita nostra, nihil aliud coronet quam munera sua” — “when God crowns our merits, He crowns nothing other than His own gifts.” He says the same at 6.15: “If your merits are God’s gifts, God does not crown your merits as your merits, but as His gifts.” The line passed into the Church’s prayer: the Roman Missal’s Preface I of Holy Men and Women blesses God who, “in crowning their merits, crowns His own gifts.” ↩
- Athanasius, On the Incarnation 54.3. The line is bold by design, but its sense is the careful one the Catechism affirms at §460: we become “partakers of the divine nature” (2 Pet 1:4) by grace and participation — not gods by nature, not God in essence. The creature is lifted into God’s life; it does not become a second God. ↩